A fellow who hears and obeys God's instruction is most likely to succeed than the spiritually deaf. If you are never used to seeking the Holy Spirit for leading on issues, a simple step could ground you beyond recovery. No believer must run the show without God on the stage of his life to beam the green light. Nobody wins in life without a helper, for every child needs his father and every believer, God the Father to succeed. Keep your relationship with God at heart and don't be defeated by the failure of others, for your destination is different from theirs. Strife is forbidden. You only strife when you lack the understanding of God's purpose and promises to you.