In this episode, I’m reflecting on the journey of realizing I was never really in the binary to begin with I just didn’t have the language for it.

I talk about how dressing masculine, being called a “masculine woman,” or stud and trying on different versions of myself never quite fit because I wasn’t confused, I was trans and nonbinary all along.

I also share five signs I was already off the binary, even before I could name it, and how transitioning didn’t take away my femininity but made me more comfortable in it.

If you’ve ever felt like none of the labels made sense , this episode might be the moment you realize you were never the problem.