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Office Hours – Becoming a leader with Ankita Kulkarni


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Ankita Kulkarni is an engineer manager and educator with more than 10 years of experience as a software engineer, now teaching developers about the transition into management.


When Ankita became a manager, she had to find mentors to help her learn the subtle intricacies of being a successful manager. Now, she’s taking what she learned and teaching developers about what that transition looks like, and how to decide if that’s how you’d like to further your career.


  • - @kulkarniankita9: https://twitter.com/kulkarniankita9
  • - @vcarl_: https://twitter.com/vcarl_
  • - @reactiflux: https://twitter.com/reactiflux


Links referenced:


  • 1. Engineering manager's mind map: https://bit.ly/3J7HzVC
  • 2. Developer to Leader Program Waitlist: https://bit.ly/3Lb1Zj5
  • 3. KulkarniAnkita.com: https://bit.ly/3ZyDYak


Topics discussed:


  • [00:00:17] Being laid off as a bittersweet opportunity
  • [00:01:32] Building databases at IBM and doing freelance web dev on the side
  • [00:03:31] New appreciation for coworkers after freelancing
  • [00:06:56] Getting her first management opportunity
  • [00:08:15] Leadership vs management
  • [00:11:28] Intrinsic motivation and finding a team that supports your goals
  • [00:14:03] Developer to Leader program
  • [00:15:50] How do you recognize a good leader?
  • [00:17:42] Teams as a group of individuals
  • [00:20:33] Psychological safety in software teams
  • [00:23:01] Having empathy as a leader
  • [00:27:25] Serving those you lead
  • [00:29:06] Spotting burnout as a leader
  • [00:30:27] Setting the tone on a team
  • [00:32:27] Proactively setting team norms
  • [00:34:49] Prioritizing your own growth as a leader
  • [00:36:42] The value of informal chats
  • [00:39:48] Soft skills in your career
  • [00:40:50] How to get a taste of the management track


  • (00:00) - Recording
  • (00:17) - Being laid off as a bittersweet opportunity
  • (01:32) - Building databases at IBM and doing freelance web dev on the side
  • (03:31) - New appreciation for coworkers after freelancing
  • (06:56) - Getting her first management opportunity
  • (08:15) - Leadership vs management
  • (11:28) - Intrinsic motivation and finding a team that supports your goals
  • (14:03) - Developer to Leader program
  • (15:50) - How do you recognize a good leader?
  • (17:42) - Teams as a group of individuals
  • (20:33) - Psychological safety in software teams
  • (23:01) - Having empathy as a leader
  • (27:25) - Serving those you lead
  • (29:06) - Spotting burnout as a leader
  • (30:27) - Setting the tone on a team
  • (32:27) - Proactively setting team norms
  • (34:49) - Prioritizing your own growth as a leader
  • (36:42) - The value of informal chats
  • (39:48) - Soft skills in your career
  • (40:50) - How to get a taste of the management track
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