Sondra and Markus discuss the Old Paradigm of Relationships and how you can transform it into the New Paradigm of Relationships. How can you identify the attributes of the Old Paradigm? In Sondra's book Lately I've Been Thinking (bit.ly/LatelyRay)she defines it succinctly. Getting over your "Personal Lie" is the first step. And they discuss how to get over it. The book for that is Liberation: Freedom from Your Biggest Block to Pure Joy (bit.ly/LibRay) IN THE NEW PARADIGM your are together for the evolution of your souls. You are willing to do the work on yourself, looking at your thoughts, and constantly raising them to greater and happier possibilities.