Welcome back to Lending Leadership: The Mortgage Pros—your go-to resource for guidance and inspiration in the ever-evolving world of mortgage lending.

After a whirlwind of traveling for work conferences, we’re excited to bring you a fresh perspective on marketing for mortgage professionals. In this episode, we’re joined by industry coach and marketing expert Ralph Watkins, who shares his expansive experience and keen insights on how loan officers can keep up in the changing landscape of mortgage marketing. Ralph has witnessed—and shaped—marketing strategies from cold calls and donuts to social media reels and the rise of AI.

We dive deep with Ralph into his career evolution, discussing the transition from brute force, interruption marketing to a modern, attraction-based approach. Along the way, we share personal stories about how meeting Ralph and his coaching changed the trajectory of our careers, underscoring the transformative power of mentorship and authentic relationships.

Together, we unpack the daily success plan, the shift from chasing to attracting business, and actionable ways for loan officers to connect with realtors in genuine, non-awkward ways. Whether you’re new to the industry or a seasoned pro, Ralph’s insights will help you stay ahead without losing sight of what works.

Key takeaways:

1. The Power of Relationship-Driven Marketing: Ralph explains how the biggest evolution in mortgage marketing is shifting from interruption-based tactics—like cold calling and door-to-door selling—to attraction marketing. Building real relationships through valuable content fosters trust and loyalty, proving far more effective than generic outreach.
2. Leveraging Content and Social Media for Scale: We discuss how social media and video channels like YouTube allow mortgage professionals to reach thousands of potential clients cost-effectively. Ralph highlights that cumulative, valuable content not only markets for you around the clock but also creates meaningful engagement with your audience.
3. The Role of AI in Modern Mortgage Marketing: Ralph brings practical advice on harnessing AI—tools like ChatGPT and Grok—to create balanced, targeted content. By letting AI draft prompts and build out content calendars, loan officers can automate much of their outreach while fine-tuning messaging through data-driven analytics. He likens AI to “a librarian who knows every book ever written,” offering answers at your fingertips.
4. Consistency and Authenticity Matter Most: No technology or flashy technique replaces genuine relationships. We reinforce that people still do business with people they know, like, and trust. Ralph urges listeners not to worry about perfection—anything worth doing is worth doing badly at first. Consistent action beats hesitation.
5. Actionable Blueprint for Social Media Success: Ralph shares a practical content mix: 50% value-driven content (educational, insightful tips), 30% personal stories and authentic glimpses, and only 20% direct calls to action. He even provides an AI prompt that lets loan officers create a month’s worth of content in minutes, making it simpler than ever to start—just ask!

This episode is a reminder that while tools and methods change, the heart of success in lending remains authentic relationships, adaptability, and a willingness to embrace new technology. Whether you're overwhelmed by marketing choices or ready for the next step, Ralph’s wisdom offers tangible strategies to help you grow without losing sight of your purpose.

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Robert, Tom, & Dave