When you know what you want, go for it. It is easier to calibrate your communication when you are able to see the person. What tonality creates the desired effect? Recognize that there is mental communication, and gut communication. By not acting, you are acting. Every cause has an effect. Find ways to communicate both with words and your body language. There’s always at least two people in a communication. The Self is the absence of absence of mind. Men are designed to go outwards.