With the judgement tarot card showing up today, it reminds us that when we make judgements we must be careful of the way in which we judge so that we don't hurt others or ourselves in the process.

The wrong way to judge is to be ignorant to the needs of the other party and simply stating that you don't approve, without listening to reasons i n any way.

The right way is to find a way to judge amicably, understand that we all make mistakes and it's OK to help and guide those that do err.  It is not our mistake,  but when we show compassion, help correct an error in a loving, compassionate way, we build upon the character of the other person and ourselves.