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Playing time drama isn't about entitled kids. It's about unclear roles. Here's the 15-minute system that eliminates it! Join the Championship Program Membership → champions.elitecompetitor.com for more tips and resources!
In this episode, I'm breaking down why playing time drama happens (spoiler: you're probably creating it without knowing) and the exact Player Impact Plan system I use with all 12 varsity athletes.
Here's what you'll learn:
✅ Why "open door policies" don't work with 14-year-olds
✅ The confusion cycle that creates resentment and drama
✅ How to document roles, expectations, and playing time in one meeting
✅ Why this 15-minute investment saves you hours later
This isn't theory. It's the system I've used for years as a four-time state champion coach.
👋🏼 Hi, I'm Coach Bre, a 4-time state champion high school volleyball coach with 14+ years of coaching experience. I'm also a Certified Mental Performance Coach and co-founder of The Elite Competitor, where I help coaches build mentally tough, confident girl athletes who perform when it matters most. My signature frameworks (like the Snapback Routine and 3-2-1 BRAVE) are used by thousands of coaches to teach mental training without adding hours to their schedule.
The Player Impact Plan (PIP) gives every athlete crystal-clear answers to:
👉 What's my role?
👉 How much will I play?
👉 What are my strengths?
👉 Where do I need to grow?
👉 What does my coach expect from me?
When everyone's on the same page from day one (including parents), the drama doesn't start. Grab the PIP template here: https://elitecompetitor.kit.com/6639eaaf9f
🕓 Key Moments:
0:00 The Root Cause of Playing Time Drama
00:42 Why Players Get Confused
01:17 Common Coaching Mistakes02:10 The Player Impact Meeting Solution
02:54 What's in the Player Impact Plan
03:56 How to Make Time for These Meetings
04:29 Get the Free Template
💬 Coaches - comment below: How do you handle athlete communication and expectations?
📌 Free Tools & Next Steps
🔹 Grab our in-depth FREE training → https://coachfreetraining.com
🔹 Follow us on IG → @elitecompetitorcoach
🔹 Follow us on TikTok→ @coachhergame
🔹 Championship Program Membership: champions.elitecompetitor.com
🔹 Player Impact Plan: https://elitecompetitor.kit.com/6639eaaf9f
🔔 Subscribe for More → Never miss an episode of Coach Her Game!
P.S. A few stats worth knowing:
⚡67% of high school athletes report unclear expectations from coaches as a top source of stress (Journal of Sport Psychology in Action, 2022)
⚡Athletes with clearly defined roles show 34% higher team commitment and 28% lower dropout rates (Sport Management Review, 2021)
⚡Proactive communication reduces parent-coach conflicts by 41% compared to reactive approaches (National Federation of State High School Associations Research, 2023)
The Coach Her Game YouTube channel is hosted by The Elite Competitor and is dedicated to helping coaches of girl athletes strengthen their mental game and team culture in order to develop a competitive edge.
#playingtime #highschoolcoaching #coachinggirls #teamculture #mentalperformance
Head to coachfreetraining.com to grab our free training for coaches to quickly level-up your team's mental game!
By Coach BrePlaying time drama isn't about entitled kids. It's about unclear roles. Here's the 15-minute system that eliminates it! Join the Championship Program Membership → champions.elitecompetitor.com for more tips and resources!
In this episode, I'm breaking down why playing time drama happens (spoiler: you're probably creating it without knowing) and the exact Player Impact Plan system I use with all 12 varsity athletes.
Here's what you'll learn:
✅ Why "open door policies" don't work with 14-year-olds
✅ The confusion cycle that creates resentment and drama
✅ How to document roles, expectations, and playing time in one meeting
✅ Why this 15-minute investment saves you hours later
This isn't theory. It's the system I've used for years as a four-time state champion coach.
👋🏼 Hi, I'm Coach Bre, a 4-time state champion high school volleyball coach with 14+ years of coaching experience. I'm also a Certified Mental Performance Coach and co-founder of The Elite Competitor, where I help coaches build mentally tough, confident girl athletes who perform when it matters most. My signature frameworks (like the Snapback Routine and 3-2-1 BRAVE) are used by thousands of coaches to teach mental training without adding hours to their schedule.
The Player Impact Plan (PIP) gives every athlete crystal-clear answers to:
👉 What's my role?
👉 How much will I play?
👉 What are my strengths?
👉 Where do I need to grow?
👉 What does my coach expect from me?
When everyone's on the same page from day one (including parents), the drama doesn't start. Grab the PIP template here: https://elitecompetitor.kit.com/6639eaaf9f
🕓 Key Moments:
0:00 The Root Cause of Playing Time Drama
00:42 Why Players Get Confused
01:17 Common Coaching Mistakes02:10 The Player Impact Meeting Solution
02:54 What's in the Player Impact Plan
03:56 How to Make Time for These Meetings
04:29 Get the Free Template
💬 Coaches - comment below: How do you handle athlete communication and expectations?
📌 Free Tools & Next Steps
🔹 Grab our in-depth FREE training → https://coachfreetraining.com
🔹 Follow us on IG → @elitecompetitorcoach
🔹 Follow us on TikTok→ @coachhergame
🔹 Championship Program Membership: champions.elitecompetitor.com
🔹 Player Impact Plan: https://elitecompetitor.kit.com/6639eaaf9f
🔔 Subscribe for More → Never miss an episode of Coach Her Game!
P.S. A few stats worth knowing:
⚡67% of high school athletes report unclear expectations from coaches as a top source of stress (Journal of Sport Psychology in Action, 2022)
⚡Athletes with clearly defined roles show 34% higher team commitment and 28% lower dropout rates (Sport Management Review, 2021)
⚡Proactive communication reduces parent-coach conflicts by 41% compared to reactive approaches (National Federation of State High School Associations Research, 2023)
The Coach Her Game YouTube channel is hosted by The Elite Competitor and is dedicated to helping coaches of girl athletes strengthen their mental game and team culture in order to develop a competitive edge.
#playingtime #highschoolcoaching #coachinggirls #teamculture #mentalperformance
Head to coachfreetraining.com to grab our free training for coaches to quickly level-up your team's mental game!