"My dad's a beautiful man, but like a lot of Mexican men, or men in general, a lot of men have a problem with the balance of masculinity and femininity - intuition and compassion and tenderness - and get overboard with the macho thing. It took him a while to become more, I would say, conscious, evolved." Carlos Santana
Although men worldwide struggle with balancing traditional male roles with compassion, there is hope. Many men I have met join organizations like the Mankind Project (MKP). https://mankindproject.org/   The purpose of MKP is to create a safer world by growing "better" men. They do this by training men and supporting them in circles.  One Kind Word makes a better man.