Jesus is the only way (Gk. hodos, road) that one may come to have eternal life.  There is no selfishness in him.  There is no desire to manipulate you in him.  There is no design to deceive you in him.  He will never sell you a false sense of self.  He will only tell you the truth about the human condition of being lost in trespasses and sins without him.  He will give you rest from the relentless power of sin in your life.