When you have twins and other kids, how do you make everyone feel seen? 

Should twins always do the same activities? Should they play the same sports? And how do siblings fit into it all? Do your twins always get grouped together while siblings get solo time or vice versa? 

In this episode, we talk about the constant tug-of-war between individual time and group time; why both matter, how guilt sneaks in, and what actually works in real life. We also dive into the chaos of sports with twins, overlapping schedules, and how families survive practices, games, and divided attention without burning out.