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Giyoh Shey is a TikToker, actor, and former professional basketball player.

Timestamps

00:00 Intro

01:19 Managing Social Media and the Psychological Load of Fame 

06:38 The Lightning Round 

08:38 The Central Card: Relationships and Happiness 

15:11 Authenticity in Content Creation 

19:35 Starting Basketball Late and Playing Overseas 

22:16 The Role of Luck in Professional Sports and Life

28:11 What Pro Ball Taught Giyoh About Relationships 

37:56Transferring Basketball Lessons to Life 

41:17 The Gift and Curse of Ambition 

57:04 The Alien Scenario: Choosing a Funeral 

01:08:03 Legacy and Final Thoughts

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Amina Buddafly is an R&B singer, songwriter, and former reality television personality.

Timestamps

00:00 Intro and Whitney Houston

03:18 The Vulnerability of Being an Artist

06:27 Art as a Collaboration

08:54 Creating to See Yourself

13:39 The Lightning Round 19:15 - The Central Card: Dinner with Your 10-Year-Old or 80-Year-Old Self? 2

3:57 Growing Up Black in Germany and Overcoming Self-Hate

34:30 The Alien Arrival Scenario and Silent Meditation

43:11 Finding Validation and Moving to America

51:57 Seeking Love Again and the Importance of Self-Love

59:03 Reality TV, Healing, and Reclaiming Your Story

01:04:20 The Six Stages of Healing

01:07:02 Reconsidering the 10-Year-Old Self

01:09:56 Advice for Young Girls Struggling with Self-Love

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Randall Slavin is a photographer and former actor. His work has been featured in Vanity Fair, GQ, Esquire, and Rolling Stone. He appeared in the films Legends of the Fall, Primal Fear, and Zoolander.

Timestamps

00:00 Intro

01:16 The Story Behind Randall’s "4" Tattoo 

06:41 The Lightning Round

11:06 The Central Card: The Middle Seat 

17:11 The Worst Middle Seat Story Ever 

23:53 What Makes Art "Good"? 

30:06 Faking Faith and the Charismatic Experience 

43:43 Why Randall Hate’s Museums 

51:38 Alien Arrivals 

58:23 Listening to Christmas Music Every Day 

01:05:21 Randall’s Last Meal and the Value of Friendship 

01:12:31 Chasing the "Cool Kids"

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Mike Estime is an actor and comedian. He played the character Risky in the hit sitcom Everybody Hates Chris.

Timestamps

00:00 Introduction

02:46 Bombing on Stage and the Comedy Process 

05:26 Execution vs. Essence in Creativity 

07:13 Trusting Your Taste

11:15 The Lightning Round 

15:00 The Importance of Patience

17:52 The Manager Who Stole from Mike 

31:03 Advice to Mike’s Younger Self 

40:23 Dealing with Disagreement and Protecting Your Peace 

45:49 Giving Up as Despair vs. Discernment 

51:25 The Power of Faith and Overcoming Depression 

57:54 Empathy, Relatability, and the Power of Asking "Why" 

01:03:00 Telling Difficult Truths with a Velvet Touch 

01:09:21 Final Reflections and Gentle Truths

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Steve Patterson is the founder of the Natural Philosophy Institute and the host of Patterson in Pursuit.

Timestamps

00:00 Introduction, The Cards, and the Origins of Ventriloquism

08:30 The Central Card: "The Customer Is Always Right"

15:15 The Role of Social Paternalism

24:47 The Overton Window and Acceptable Discourse

29:12 The Taboo of Questioning Mathematics

34:24 The Power of Generalization: Chess and Jiu-Jitsu

41:48 Why Doctors are Often Wrong About Everything

52:02 Bitcoin: Why the Customer is Actually Right

57:32 The Superpower of Being Funny

01:03:05 The Devotion to Mystery vs. The Desire for Truth

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Selam Seifu is a professional reader and laboratory scientist.

Timestamps

00:00 Selam’s Viral Michael Jackson Video

05:46 Icebreaker Round

12:32 The Central Card: The Worst Piece of Advice Selam’s Ever Received

14:07The Importance of Reading and Book Content Creation

21:50 Why You Should Read: Empathy, Compassion, and Gratitude

30:01 Working in an Animal E.R.

39:24 A.I. in Writing and the Canceled A.I.-Authored Book

44:12 The Count of Monte Cristo and Classic Literature

52:02 First Impressions and Meta-Consciousness

01:03:05 The Story of Medusa and Retellings

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Kristen Ziegler is a professional organizer, a former architect, and the founder of Minima.

Timestamps

0:00 Intro

6:22 The Central Card

9:37 Time is the most valuable asset

22:24 Naps

27:19 Kristen's architectural thesis

30:38 Horror movies and designing for fear

34:18 Midsommar

46:27 No Hobbies

54:41 Leaving architecture and discovering her passion

1:02:55 Closing advice: Define your vision

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Joshua Fields Millburn is one-third of the simple-living trio The Minimalists.

Timestamps

0:00 Intro

4:41 Icebreaker Round

7:29 The Dream Pill

15:03 Joshua's 150-Store Corporate Nightmare

18:57 Never Take Anything Personally

29:05 T.K.'s Self-Righteousness Confession

37:30 Pleonexia: Chasing More Square Feet

47:10 Joshua's Sleep Struggles & Floor Sleeping

57:54 The Need for an "Us Box" in Relationships

1:05:39 Joshua's Grief After Losing His Brother Jerome

1:16:43 Grief and Dreams

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Janel Gonzalez is the founder of The Rising.

Timestamps

00:00 Intro

03:39 Icebreaker Round

06:56 The Central Card: Quiet Day

14:19 Nice guys finish last (kindness vs. niceness)

24:12 "Was there a time you didn't set boundaries?"

32:39 Embracing the "dark side"

33:19 How do you comfort someone who is grieving?

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Matt Savidakis is a sponsored street skateboarder from Palm Harbor, Florida.

Timestamps

00:00 Intro

04:30 Icebreaker round

05:40 The bag-of-money moral dilemma

16:26 Rage while filming skate tricks

24:54 Blowing $10K and landing in car debt at 18

27:34 Sister's advice, moving to California, and getting debt-free

31:21 What pro skateboarders actually get paid

40:54 The DoorDash customer who wouldn't give her name

47:14 Why Matt wants his sister to deliver his eulogy

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