Open Marriage Podcast

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Are we married or just roommates? In this episode of the Open Marriage Podcast, we get honest about how parenthood has changed our relationship, why finding time for each other has become harder, and how we navigate feedback and communication as a couple. From sleepless nights and teething to Halloween plans and Blair's next career chapter, we're figuring out marriage and parenthood one day at a time.

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We're back! In this episode of the Open Marriage Podcast, we get real about how becoming parents has challenged our marriage, forced us to rethink household responsibilities, and taught us what it means to show up for each other. We also discuss Blair's unexpected career transition, taking risks, life with a four-month-old, and whether you can be pro-Black while dating interracially.

Marriage, parenthood, career changes, and honest conversations. We're catching up on it all.

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"HOW DO I HELP?"

Khalia is clearly more practiced with the baby, while Blair is trying to figure out how to contribute.

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Parenthood has completely changed our priorities and neither of us expected how much we'd want to stay home with our family!

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Three weeks into parenthood, we're sharing what nobody tells you about newborn life, sleepless nights, self-doubt, and the moments that make it all worth it.

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Blair and Khalia talk moving into their new home just weeks before their baby arrives, unpacking life updates, baby showers, and what it really feels like to prepare for parenthood, while also diving into relationship dynamics, social media boundaries, and a candid debate sparked by the Michael Jackson movie.

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Happy Easter!

Blair and Khalia share how they met on Easter and turned a chance encounter into marriage and a baby on the way, while reflecting on their journey, relationship growth, and the importance of individuality through “protected time.”

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Blair and Khalia talk pregnancy, preparing for their first baby, how to raise independent and critical-thinking kids, and dive into honest conversations about parenting, relationships, and modern dating.

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Blair and Khalia unpack their emotional baby shower weekend, preparing for a new home and baby, choosing a name, and diving into real conversations about relationships, age dynamics, and the truth behind red-pill culture.

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In this episode of the Open Marriage Podcast, Blair and Khalia settle into another candid Sunday conversation as they prepare for one of the biggest transitions of their lives...becoming parents. 

With their first baby showers only days away, the couple reflects on the meaning of community, the emotional experience of having friends and family show up for their growing family, and the unexpected realities of building a baby registry. They also talk about the practical side of preparing for a child while still living in a one-bedroom apartment and their hopes of moving into a larger home before the baby arrives.

The conversation moves between humor and reflection as they discuss childhood books they hope to share with their child, the small rituals that shaped their own upbringing, and what it means to build a supportive “village” around a new family. Blair shares his evolving mindset about fatherhood, responsibility, and learning to trust that the instincts of parenting will come when the time arrives.

Later in the episode, the couple dives into pop culture and relationship dynamics, reacting to the latest Love Is Blind reunion and discussing what reality dating shows reveal, and often miss, about healthy relationships. 

The discussion expands into a broader debate about age gaps in dating, maturity, and how people navigate compatibility and long-term partnership.

Blending humor, honesty, and real-life perspective, this episode explores what it looks like to prepare for parenthood while continuing to learn, grow, and challenge each other inside a marriage.