What really leads to better sex and stronger orgasms for women — and what if everything we've been taught is missing the point? In this episode, we dive into bold new research from Germany that challenges what we think about pleasure. It turns out that old-school penile-vaginal sex was more strongly linked to satisfaction than things like oral sex or even manual stimulation. Even more surprising? Having a positive attitude about clitoral self-stimulation during partnered sex didn’t always boost satisfaction — and sometimes made it worse. Why? Deep down, society’s old rules about what sex should look like are still shaping what people feel. Join us as we dig into how outdated sexual scripts could be quietly sabotaging real connection — and what needs to change to finally break free.