It is in our body already the template on what it takes to be human. With our head held up on our upright framework, maintaining humaneness takes motivation to look for acknowledgment when one is not found often enough and also listening for criticism when one is not found often enough, for feedback is what informs us on how well we are doing if no body cares enough to voice it to us in person. What goes around is what comes around. Pay attention to what is coming and not coming around and some bit of what you are handing around would be feedbacked. Your priorities are likely to change accordingly.