Your enemy isn't the person you live with, the person who has harmed or  offended us. Our enemy is one who we can't see but we can see the spirit  in operation working through others. Sometimes the enemy is in our  minds and souls but we have to confront our enemy once and for all.  Let's be honest with ourselves so we can truly be free. This is an encore! Sometimes we can think that we are so smart, we have it under control or we will figure it out. It's plainly in our face but we don't acknowledge it. It's not the other person! It the you or it's the devil. It's time to figure it out. Have I been sabotaging myself or allowing the enemy access to my life? Seek God to help you to get to the bottom of this, a sound Christian counselor or a saved life coach. When you are given the answer don't run from it. It's time to live the abundant life that God promises us.