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In this episode of My Therapist Hates You, Carly and Hannah unpack their most formative eras—the music, outfits, trauma, and healing that shaped them. From ska shows full of red flags to Taylor Swift deep cuts, they map the emotional terrain of growing up queer, broke, and a little bit feral.

You’ll hear stories of escaping abusive homes, surviving toxic jobs (welding, dental assisting), and hitting emotional rock bottom with nothing but food bank oatmeal and a perfectly timed anthem. Featuring shout-outs to Bia, Belle & Sebastian, Trace Adkins, and yes, Free People bralettes, this is the memoir-core mixtape you didn’t know you needed.

Stick around for a chaotic lightning round of songs that broke us, saved us, and scored our sex lives. Plus: ska hot takes, zine announcements, and a promise of curated playlists on Patreon.

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