Marriage is a controversial topic in our society today. The Christian life is a life of submission. Wives are to submit willingly to their husbands, but husbands are not to demand submission. Submission to husbands is obedience to the Lord. There are different roles in marriage, but the worth of the wife and the husband is equal in the Lord. We need the grace of God to live out these callings. Husbands are to have the love for their wives like Christ does for the church and died on the cross for her. He is to play a role in the sanctification of his wife. Seek the Lord for the strengthening and healing of your marriage and the marriages around you.