His&Hers is a podcast about marriage and exploring the power of perspective. On His&Hers, I invite phenomenal guests to talk about marriage, overcoming challenges and sometimes to share expert advice so that we can all learn from them. We talk about how to connect with ourselves which helps us to better connect with our spouses. My hope is for us to explore the BEAUTY of relationships and for us to remind ourselves and to remind each other about how we can compliment each other simply by shifting our perspectives. ❤❤❤❤❤ 🎉🎊🎉🎊 We are in Season 3!! Yay!! Alhamdulillah!! In Season 3 we go back to sharing marriage stories, lessons and journeys, Alhamdulillah. I'm so excited to be learning and sharing with phenomenal women across the globe! And I hope you will all come along with us on this vital and empowering journey of support and encouragement, woman to woman insha-Allah. 💛💛💛💛💛 💜💜💜💜💜 My book, Soft & Strong, has officially been launched!!!🎉🎊🎉 You can now order your copy from my website https://allahswonder.com/soft-strong/ 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡 or get it straight from Amazon. 💚💚💚💚💚 We love hearing from you. Share your thoughts, marriage lessons, advices. If you or anyone you know would like to add value to the show, let me know. You're welcome to pop me a message on Facebook: Galeema Davids, Instagram: davidsgaleema or email: [email protected]. Feel free to join the all-women FB group Connecting Through Sharing. I hope you enjoy the show. Thank you for listening. 💙💙💙💙💙 In this episode, my guest, Estela Rodriguez Jebril, and I talk about her marriage story and journey; and the marriage lessons extracted from that journey. We talk about all the pieces of ourselves that we bring into marriage, such as culture, past experiences and identities, marriage expectations etc. Estela also talks about age gaps, cultural differences, and coming into a marriage as a parent already while your husband has not yet had the experience of being a parent. We talk about the nature of men and women and focus in on how we can both optimise our best selves and make marriage work. Adding growth, compassion, empathy, self-esteem and self-reflection to the mix, this is a conversation you want to listen to! 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡 Estela is a Muslimah sex coach and helps women work through past trauma and abuse. My biggest takeaway from this conversation with Estela was the reminder about how often we go into attack mode, and the solution for this accusatory/blaming approach is through "being assertive and reflective and asking for clarity". Estela can be contacted on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/estela.jebril and https://programs.spiralupconnections.com/passionate-muslimah-academy-enroll/ or join her FB group, Sisters Helping Sisters https://www.facebook.com/groups/195053684396817/?ref=share