On their 41st anniversary, Paul and Lori reflect on how faith and everyday habits helped them overcome doubts and build a joyful, lasting marriage. They credit prayer, surrender to God, and practical routines for keeping their relationship strong.

The habits they highlight include generosity, grace, gratitude, daily non-sexual touch (like morning snuggles), caring about each other’s interests, sharing faith through daily devotionals and ministry, and trying new things together.