Our Uncommon Life

Our Uncommon Life

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Our Uncommon Life episodes

  • Hot Flashes, HRT, and Real Life: When Peri Turns Into Menopause

    In this episode of Our Uncommon Life, Vena shares a personal update on stepping into menopause and how the journey hasn’t unfolded the way she expected.

    Unlike the gradual lead-up many women describe, there weren’t years of obvious perimenopause red flags. Instead, the shift felt sudden ; with intense hot flashes and unmistakable physical signals that something had changed. What started as the assumption of “probably peri” quickly became the realization that her body was already operating in full menopause mode ... even if the calendar and conventional timelines hadn’t quite caught up.

    We talk openly about:

    • The surprise of rapid symptom onset

    • Navigating hot flashes and body changes in real time

    • Reconciling expectations vs. reality

    • Making proactive decisions around starting HRT

    • The role of partnership and how Zac has shown up as a teammate through the unknowns, the conversations, and the adjustments

    • Listening to your body instead of waiting for textbook confirmation

    This conversation isn’t about medical advice, it’s about ownership, awareness, and trusting yourself through transitions that don’t always follow predictable paths. It’s also a reminder that navigating life changes isn’t a solo effort, and that support, communication, and humor matter when you’re figuring things out together.

    As always, Our Uncommon Life is about sharing the real chapters : building businesses, investing in marriage, and evolving through every season life brings.

    37 min
  • Anchoring the Year Ahead: Our 2026 Words

    New year, clear direction.

    In this episode of Our Uncommon Life, we’re kicking off 2026 by sharing our words of the year , the anchors guiding how we approach business, marriage, and life over the next twelve months.

    Instead of resolutions, we focus on intention.

    Zac’s word for 2026 is Intention : a reflection of his commitment to focus, make deliberate decisions, and pursue the goal of 10X growth in business and impact. It’s about saying yes with purpose and no with confidence.

    Vena’s word for the year is Steadfast : a commitment to digging in, staying grounded, and showing up consistently through growth, challenges, and long-term vision building. Not chasing shiny objects, but standing firm in what matters.

    This episode is a simple, honest conversation about choosing direction over pressure and using language to shape the year ahead.

    In this episode:

    • Why we choose words instead of resolutions

    • Zac’s focus on Intention and scaling growth

    • Vena’s commitment to Steadfast consistency

    • How couples can align vision while pursuing individual goals

    Because at the end of the day ...
    The most important business we run is our marriage.

    23 min
  • Three Countries, One Birthday, and a Very Real Holiday Chat

    In our final episode of the year, we’re wrapping up the season with a conversation that blends real life, travel, marriage, and growth.

    We start with how we’re navigating the holiday season this year: our approach to boundaries, traditions, family expectations, and the intentional choices we make to keep our marriage first during one of the busiest times of the year. If you’re looking for honest talk about holiday stress, travel plans, or creating new traditions as a couple, this part of the episode is for you.

    From there, we dive into a full recap of our Europe trip across Ireland, Milan, and Paris. We share our favorite restaurants, the most memorable dishes, the cultural moments that surprised us, and the experiences we’re already talking about for next year. We also chat about what Zac has already been trying to recreate in our kitchen since coming home. If you love travel stories, food recaps, or Europe itinerary inspo, you’ll love this section.

    We close the episode with a big milestone: Zac turning 40 this week. He opens up about what stepping into a new decade means for him, how his mindset is shifting, and what we’re dreaming about as we head into the next chapter of life, marriage, and business together.

    It’s a heartfelt, warm, and reflective season finale filled with travel highlights, honest conversations, and a look at how we’re building “our uncommon life” with intention, adventure, and connection.

    34 min
  • Ditching Expectations & Designing Your Own Holidays

    The holidays can be magical… or they can be a pressure cooker of expectations. In this episode, Zac and Vena talk about breaking free from “shoulds” and building traditions that actually bring joy.
    They share how travel has become their favorite holiday ritual, how they balance family expectations with personal peace, and why saying no can sometimes be the most loving thing you do.
    This one’s for anyone craving more intention and less overwhelm during the busiest time of year.

    21 min
  • Stop Ghosting Your Own Commitments

    We all know that one person who always cancels. (Or maybe we’ve been that person.) In this candid conversation, Zac and Vena talk about the ripple effect of indecision ...from business to friendships to marriage.
    They explore how saying “maybe” too often becomes a habit, how it affects trust and energy, and why honoring your word (even in small things) matters more than ever. This is a call-out and a pep talk rolled into one, especially for people who want to show up better in all areas of life.

    34 min
  • We Asked Each Other the Hard Stuff (And Some Surprising Answers!)

    This one’s fun! Vena and Zac pull random deep-question cards for each other ... no prep, no filters...and the answers might surprise you. Things like "What would you do if you weren't afraid" to "What you've learned from your biggest regret" we go in DEEP. It was fun to get caught off guard and be a little less prepared for this episode and just wing it!
    We share laughter, honesty, and a few unexpected truths about what they’ve learned over 16 years together. It’s equal parts fun date night and emotional connection.

    26 min
  • When “Fine” Isn’t Enough

    We’ve all said it: “It’s fine.” But what happens when fine becomes your new normal? In this episode, Zac and Vena dig into that sneaky comfort zone we all fall into... the one where things aren’t bad, but they’re not great either. Whether it’s your business, relationship, or daily routine, that feeling of “fine” can keep you from chasing what’s truly fulfilling.
    They talk about recognizing when you’re settling, how to course-correct before burnout or resentment sets in, and why “fine” is the ultimate red flag for high-achievers who crave more from life.

    38 min
  • Weekend Vibes: Traverse City, Family Time, and a Little Chaos

    This week on Our Uncommon Life, we’re keeping things light and fun as we recap our weekend getaway up in Traverse City ...complete with family time, crab legs, and a little chaos (because of course).

    We chat about what it’s like for Zac to hang out with his in-laws (spoiler: he actually always enjoys it), our four-year anniversary of owning the condo, and the mix of nostalgia and gratitude that comes with that milestone. From all-you-can-eat crab legs and a few lucky (or not-so-lucky) spins at the casino, to checking out new local favorites like Sisters and Glendale Burgers, it was one of those perfectly imperfect weekends that reminded us why we love this place so much.

    Zac also got to sneak in a golf day with the guys at Grand Traverse Resort, while Vena… had a slightly less glamorous morning at Munson Hospital for what we’re now calling “the Great Gas Incident of 2025.” (Don’t worry, she lived to tell the tale.)

    It’s a weekend recap episode full of laughter, real-life moments, and the reminder that the best memories are usually the unplanned ones.

    23 min
  • From West Hollywood to World-Class Speakers: Our Summit of Greatness Recap

    This week on Our Uncommon Life, we’re recapping our incredible trip to Los Angeles for the 2025 Summit of Greatness, an event that left us feeling inspired, challenged, and even more committed to learning and growing together as a couple and as entrepreneurs.

    From checking into the 1Hotel West Hollywood (a dream stay with the best rooftop views in LA), to dinners out at Koi and Jones Hollywood, to reconnecting with past Summit attendees who have become lifelong friends, it was a trip that perfectly blended business, growth, and quality time together.

    At the conference itself, we had the chance to hear from some of today’s most influential voices including Andrew Huberman, Gabby Bernstein, JoJo, Brendon Burchard, Dr. Tara Swart, Matthew Hussey, and Amy Purdy. We’re sharing our biggest takeaways, our favorite speakers, and (of course) who Zac would love to sit down and have dinner with if he had the chance.

    This episode is all about how we invest in experiences like this to keep building not just our businesses, but also our marriage, mindset, and vision for the future. Because at the end of the day, the most important business we run is our relationship—and events like this fuel us to keep dreaming bigger together.

    • Our honest review of 1Hotel West Hollywood and our favorite LA dining spots

    • The magic of reconnecting with past Summit attendees

    • Takeaways from world-class speakers like Andrew Huberman & Gabby Bernstein

    • The moments that inspired us most at Summit of Greatness 2025

    • Why we believe in learning and growing together as a married entrepreneurial couple

    If you’re an entrepreneur, a married couple in business, or just someone who craves personal growth, this episode is full of insights, laughs, and a little LA glam.

    34 min
  • Marriage + Miles: Our Best Travel Hacks as a Couple

    Fresh off a trip to Los Angeles for a business conference, we thought it would be fun to share some of our favorite travel tips as married entrepreneurs. Traveling together for both work and play has taught us a lot about setting expectations, handling the unexpected, and knowing when to put down the laptop and just enjoy the moment.

    In this episode, we chat about:

    • How we manage each other’s travel styles and expectations

    • What to do when things don’t go as planned (because they won’t!)

    • Finding the balance between a true vacation and a work trip

    • Why communication before, during, and after travel makes all the difference

    It’s an honest look at what it takes to travel well together...not perfectly, but with teamwork, patience, and a little humor along the way.


    If you liked this episode, please leave us a review on all major platforms. Let us know what key takeaway you are going to use on your next trip!

    30 min

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Welcome to Our Uncommon Life. We are Zac & Vena Boddy, married entrepreneurs for over a decade. Follow along with us as we share our insights on growing together: through owning multiple…