Out Of Your Mind

Being authentic isn't something we can just DO. 

The reason we're afraid to be our true selves in the first place is because of deep emotional wounding as a child.

This runs nervous system DEEP. 

Our instinctual brain runs the narrative of: "if I show my true self, I could be rejected and abandoned".

That isn't something we can just get over.
That is a years long, deep, dark, yet expansive process.

Being AUTHENTIC is the difference between your healthiest self and your most dis-eased self...

The combination of the Manifestor energy type and Motherhood makes for a unique experience that perhaps only 2% of humanity can relate to.

I GET YOU. I'm a Manifestor and a mother myself. I KNOW how lonely this experience can feel. 

There is much juice and magic in this episode. 

Dive in and let me know what you receive!!

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Let's dig into the 6 lines in Human Design and what the lines in the placements of your conscious + unconscious North and South nodes reveal to you.

YOU, in your gorgeous essence, are not here to be appreciated and seen by everybody. 

You are, however, here to be seen by the people you're energetically designed to have an impact on.

This is really powerful to know: for your business, your relationships, + your life. 

ENJOY!! 

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WELCOME BACK!

Let’s dig into the chaos and confusion of what it means to suddenly feel your whole life shifting as a 6 line profile in Human Design as you go ‘onto the roof’.

It’s called going ‘onto the roof’ because it signifies just that: a higher vision of everything. 

You now see your life experiences, your choices, your mind, and the people in your life quite differently. 

You feel a simultaneous need to retreat and ALSO to get it ALL done. It’s a mini existential crisis.

I’m in it myself as we speak, so I stand in solidarity.

We then dive in to the importance of building relationships from a foundation of inner truth, and the only way you do that is by first uncovering what is even true for you. 

Let’s see how Human Design helps you do just that! 

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Validation. Feeling heard, seen, understood.
This tiny but actually massively powerful concept that affects every part of who we are, and whether we trust ourselves or not.

Do you feel validated in your life by those closest to you?
Do you validate (and therefore trust) yourself? 
Do you validate the experience of others even though you do not 'understand' them? 

If you've lost touch with who you are through invalidation, it's time we rebuild the connection between your gut and your head.

You are unique and quirky and valid in every sense of who you are, and to live and flourish fully in this human experience, you must learn to fully trust yourself once again.

How do you view and value the things you know that you are naturally, intuitively gifted at?
The thing that you have always wanted to do, the thing that you love, the thing that you know you should be doing.

In this society of the last 50/100 years, we have been trained (through the schooling system and society on a whole) that only certain things are worth putting our time and money into and that if we don't, we will amount to nothing. 
We have been taught that science and math are what will make us money one day, and that only certain 'careers' are worth pursuing if we ever wish to 'make money'.  

We are handed a very few select subjects to learn about in school, and if we happen to find them boring and unable to waste our precious time on them, we're labeled by low scores as 'unintelligent' in that realm.

Of course, a lot of that has changed and  is now changing, but that has been and still quite often is the undertone of many of our belief systems.

We value a hard-copy certificate over somebody's natural talent.
We doubt our ability to do the thing we know that we are really good at but have nothing to 'prove' that we are good at it.

We're told to take classes and courses that only serve to water down the uniqueness of our personal gifts.
But it's time to shift all of that.

There has never been a better time in history than now to step into the magic of what you know you are naturally capable of.
The world is waiting, and the universe will serve you.

You have a duty - and that is to be true to your inclinations and desires!

We so often fear doing something that we are really called to do in the concern over the other people that may be affected by our choice.

What we are not acknowledging, is that there is always a perfect plan in motion. 
You will never know the outcome of any of the actions you choose to take, but you can trust that it WILL turn out great for everybody else affected.

When you have a strong, sincere desire to do something, do it. 
You are a part of something bigger (always), and by taking action on YOUR part, you open up the magic for ANOTHER'S part.

This works the other way around too.
When somebody takes an action that affects you, even though it may not seem comfortable from your current viewpoint, know that everything happens FOR you.
There was a reason that somebody had to do that something.

You will lessen your frustration  remarkably when you acknowledge this wise truth.

The power that we hold when it comes to our perspective and the ability to control our energy is immense.

This becomes extra important when it comes to what we consciously (or unconsciously) choose to energetically absorb.

We live in a time where information is constantly surrounding us - information about the whole wide world - much more information than we were ever designed to be able to take on.

We have a limited amount of full energetic attention to give, and when it is subconsciously given to burdens that are actually not ours to carry - the load can become dark and heavy.

More importantly, it will distract us from what really matters - our own energy and capacity to give.  We cannot give whole-heartedly when we have not first given fully to ourselves.

The best magic of all is that we have the power to choose to 'help' in a different way.  A way that leaves both the other person/situation AND ourselves more enlivened and energized.

Have you ever noticed why and when you feel uncomfortable or unable to fully be yourself around another person?  It's usually the people we are closest to.
What triggers the discomfort?

Learning to be fully comfortable with every aspect of ourselves doesn't quite come naturally.  There are likely parts of yourself that you are ashamed of, or parts that you label negatively.

This is where the beautiful shadow work needs to happen. The work of digging deeper into the parts of ourselves that we don't show the world, and rewriting the story.

By understanding, accepting, and embracing all aspects of who we are, we allow ourselves to be authentic with others.

When we reach that magic, powerful place, we give that same gift to others.  Only when we love and accept all of who we are, can we love and accept all the parts of another.

Why is it that honesty has become awkward in our culture? 
Why do we live and believe that it's normal to keep the peace and lie to somebody, when we know we are lying to ourselves? 

Digging even deeper into it, what are the BELIEFS we hold about why a certain topic is considered "awkward and uncomfortable"?

How could our communication, honesty, and re-framing of why we see things the way we do change our lives?

Brad Blanton - author of Radical Honesty and highly esteemed psychologist - believes sincerely that the main reason for much of today's psychosis and depression (and most other psychological ailments) lies in our inability to tell the truth.

I couldn't agree more. 

We have the power to change that.

Radical Honesty https://www.amazon.com/Radical-Honesty-Transform-Telling-Truth/dp/0970693842