In this episode of the Love Spark Podcast, Tonya and Stevi explain how surface topics mask deeper "dreams" and values, share clues to spot gridlock, and walk through Gottman’s steps: explore dreams, soothe, reach a temporary compromise (two-circle method), and express gratitude.

The hosts use sample scenarios and their own business-related gridlock to demonstrate practical tools for turning perpetual problems into manageable, growth-oriented conversations.