In any close relationship, there are usually a few arguments that seem unsolvable. One person wants one thing, the other wants the opposite and it seems neither can win. In this episode we will use techniques taught by John Gottman to help you find a solution to these problems that is based in love and understanding. You will learn how to build closeness and then learn to recognize the dreams that are driving your perspective and needs. These "unsolvable problems" will become something that can bring you closer together rather than drive you apart.