In my decades of working with teens and their families… I’ve met a lot of overzealous and overprotective parents.

Parents don’t pamper their teens because they want to do the wrong thing. In fact, they do it from a heart of love. But it’s so much better to love your teenager in a healthy manner… that allows him to grow up and mature.

Think of it this way: Every decision you make for your daughter is one less decision she has to make for herself. And every day that you keep your son dependent on you is one less day he has to become an independent adult.

Are you an overprotective parent? Quit coddling! It’s time to let go… back off… and let your teen take control.

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