The latest episode of the Own Your Message podcast tackles the cultural trend of being "mindful and demure," which is often humorously critiqued yet reflects deeper societal expectations placed on women. The discussion highlights the dichotomy between the need for women to embrace assertiveness and their perceived obligation to be soft and non-threatening. Through personal anecdotes and insights, the host emphasizes that this narrative can hinder female entrepreneurs and lead to feelings of inadequacy. The episode encourages listeners to reject these limiting beliefs and embrace their strength, asserting that powerful women can be both fierce and feminine. Join the conversation on Instagram to share whether you identify as soft and demure or a strong, Amazonian warrior.
In this episode of the Own Your Message podcast, I examine the viral "mindful and demure" trend, which originated from Kourtney Kardashian and has been spoofed on TikTok.
I discuss how this trend highlights a broader societal issue where women are expected to be soft and non-threatening, particularly in business settings. It's time to reject these limiting stereotypes, embrace your strength and assertiveness, and build robust systems in their businesses that allow you to thrive without compromising your true self.
Well-behaved women seldom make history. So, let's stop outsourcing our confidence to outdated societal norms. It's not 1930 anymore; it's time to take up space and go after what we want. Manifestation requires action, and building a strong business demands strategy, not just wishful thinking.
I'm done with the soft and demure narrative. It's time to be loud, unapologetic, and take things into our own hands. Let's create the reality we want, ignite that fire under our arses, and show up for the people who need us.
If this pep talk resonated with you, please DM me on Instagram at www.instagram.com/growwithalisa. Are you soft and demure, or are you a strong, Amazonian warrior? Let's chat about it.
Takeaways:
- The trend of being 'mindful and demure' is a societal expectation that can hinder women's empowerment.
- Women are often pressured to present a softer, more submissive persona in various spaces, including business.
- Balancing strength and femininity is essential; one can be both powerful and soft at the same time.
- Manifestation requires action; simply wishing for things won't bring them into your life.
- It's important to challenge societal norms that dictate how women should behave and present themselves.
- Being unapologetically loud and taking up space can lead to greater success and fulfillment.
Links referenced in this episode:
- www.instagram.com/growwithalisa