Welcome to another round of Page and Jake’s Takes, where we offer super-extra-barely-mild opinions on parenting-related topics.

The rules of babysitting...are they for the kids? The babysitter? The parents?  

Heading into this we always thought we had one main rule concerning babysitters: USE THEM. Early and often. (Sort of like how we wish we did for the wedding in the cover image of this episode!)

Turns out there’s more to it than that.  

During this episode, Page and Jake discuss everything from how much actual work is reasonable to expect of a babysitter, or if it's OK to have them literally just sit and watch your baby. They also take on the age-old question of how/when to do the "double round-up," and Page tells a story that will make you question her worth as a human. Or at least as a babysitter.

Sit back, listen and enjoy. Also, can you come by around 5 p.m. on Saturday? We could really use a night out... 

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Page and Jake's Takes: Babysitter Rules

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She's baaaaack... and this time, she's a REAL AUTHOR (just in case you, like Michelle Icard herself, didn't believe that until this time around). And that endearing humility and humor are reasons #4,000 and 4,001 why you'll love her so. 

On this episode of "Date Night with Jake and Page" Michelle joins your hosts to discuss her THIRD BOOK, "8 Setbacks That Can Make a Child a Success." They discuss the reframing of the word, "failure," which middle school archetype each person was in middle school (and how to correctly pronounce the word, "archetype"), and Michelle calls Jake out on thinking he was dating Kate Hudson (spoiler-alert: he wasn't). Check out Michelle's latest spot on the TODAY SHOW and her website michelleicard.com for more! 

*This episode of "Date Night with Jake and Page" was brought to you by Big Brothers Big Sisters of the Central Carolinas providing mentors for kids in this region since 1972! BBBS serves more than 1,500 kids in Mecklenburg, Cabarrus and York counties, through traditional community- and school-based mentoring and innovative specialty programs that connect caring adults with local children in meaningful one-to-one relationships. Come support "The Big Toast" with Jake and Page Thursday, October 5th at The Collector's Room! If you can't make it that night of course you can always donate to mentorship or become a sponsor too. Check out BBBS Central Carolinas on Instagram and Facebook for more!

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If kelly green ceilings, bright yellow couches, and a giant stuffed ostrich were a person... that person would be our guest for this episode, Natalie Papier. Or, Natalie *Airhorn Noise*, as she'll forever now be known in the Fehling house. Get ready for a colorful and fun-filled episode of Date Night with Jake and Page featuring this incredibly talented interior designer! 

Known for her bold use of colors and unexpected pairings, Natalie shared some behind-the-scenes scoop on the show she co-stars in (along with muralist Racheal Jackson and abstract artist Frankie Zombie), “Artfully Designed” (streaming on the Magnolia network and Discovery Plus), her  upcoming book, "Home is where the ART is," and her new lighting line with Hudson Valley lighting. Casual. She's a snoodge busy.

Follow Natalie *Airhorn Noise* at @home_ec_op on Instagram for design inspo and a general good time. And be on the lookout for how you can apply to be Season 2 of "Artfully Designed!"

And let's not forget our amazing sponsors for this episode! Harriet's Hamburgers, serving up the best quality burgers made with artisan buns, house-made pickles and sauces, and cheese from a small batch creamery. And don't forget to ask for the secret menu item, the Juicy Lucy - a hamburger patty stuffed with cheese for the ultimate indulgence. And with their new location opening soon, you'll be able to enjoy Harriet's burgers even closer to home.

And speaking of new locations, Bossy Beulah's just opened its third location, this time in South End! Known for their "no nonsense" approach to chicken, everything is made in-house with chicken raised right here in the Carolinas without any added hormones, preservatives, or growth stimulants. And with their new indoor and outdoor bar, you can enjoy their delicious bites and soft serve ice cream in style. Visit @harriets.hamburgers and @bossybeulahs for more!

So grab your favorite burger or chicken sandwich and tune in to the latest episode of Date Night with Jake and Page, where we bring the laughs and heart to your evening. Enjoy!

Natalie Papier

If Valentine's Day to you means more a love of laughter than of romance, then the Fehlings are your V-Dday huckleberries. Join Jake and Page as they discuss Jake's love of gifts (but not thoughtful ones), what "cuffing season" means to old (yet freaky?) people, and why creating your own (ab)normal really does apply to EVERYTHING.  

This episode of Date Night was brought to you by Bossy Beulah's! Located in South End, this chicken sandwich powerhouse spot just opened its third location (second in Charlotte). Stop by for scrumptious sandwiches, salads, wings, bites, fries, and alll the amazing sauces. Follow them on Instagram @bossybeulah and don't miss June's IG reel taking their name to all new literal levels.

Valentine's Day

On this episode of “Date Night with Jake and Page,” your hosts sit down with Brad Panovich, Chief Meteorologist for WCNC in Charlotte. They talk weather, fears of flying (OK, maybe that was just Jake) and television careers. It's tough to tell during the latter discussion whether or not if Page is happy to be out of the business. ;-) Brad has a wealth of knowledge, and if you're even remotely interested in weather, this episode is a must-listen!

A self-proclaimed weather and science geek, you can catch Brad on the socials at @wxbrad. Even if you aren't in Charlotte, he's an incredible follow, especially on Twitter. You can also find him driving around town with WXBRAD license plate. Check Page's Instagram for pics!

**This episode of Date Night is brough to you by the Mint Museum Uptown's Fashion Reimagined exhibit, running December 10, 2022 – July 2, 2023. In celebration of the 50th anniversary of the fashion collection’s founding in 1972 by the Mint Museum Auxiliary, Fashion Reimagined features 50 outstanding examples of fashionable dress drawn entirely from the permanent collection of The Mint Museum. Encompassing a wide range of attire, the exhibition includes men’s and women’s fashions from 1760 to 2022 and is divided into three thematic sections: minimalism, pattern and decoration, and the body reimagined. For more information, visit https://mintmuseum.org/fashion-reimagined/.

Brad Panovich

On this episode of "Date Night with Jake and Page," your hosts sit down with Brittany and Juston Burris. Wolfpack, Panthers, Jets and Browns fans know Juston as an NFL player, but if you're looking for the inside scoop on anything football this is not your podcast. Sorry, not sorry. IF, however, you're looking to hear from a powerhouse couple that's known each other since middle school, dated since college, and is growing a real estate investment portfolio and Airbnb business we can ALL learn from... have a listen. You'll be glad you did. 

Learn more (and dare we say, book your next stay?!) at thenextstopco.com. Also mark your calendars for Oct 20th!!! Brittany's online self-paced how-to for Airbnb wannabe hosts (*raises hand*) drops that day. Details are on the website and for more follow @thenextstopcollective everywhere on social media!

**This episode of Date Night is brought to you by The NASCAR Hall of Fame "Over the Edge Challenge." For just $20 you can give a kid in Charlotte an experience that will open doors and curiosity for a lifetime. More info and links to donate here: charlotteovertheedge.org. And if you'd like to come cheer on Jake, he'll be supporting the cause on Oct. 5 by rappelling down the side of a 10-story building in Charlotte!

Page and Jake's Takes: Babysitter Rules

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