So my dear friend Lybiyah is talking about how her grandmother was her END-ALL and BE-ALL and how when the day she was no longer there....how not having anyone to support her hope help her face her fears and believe her dreams became a struggle to be strong for her children......this led me into many memories that I had forgot for at least 30 years.....and now they are all coming back because for me my grandmother was my living hell that predetermined the course of whole life.....a life filled with lots of pain and lots of suffering😔😔😔