Couples Taya and Sean Hartless and Alysia and Tyler Rogers met online three years ago in an attempt to keep things exciting. After a year of spicing things up, the couples fell in love and decided to move in together in Oregon.

Each couple already had a child but decided to welcome two more tots together as a polyamorous family.

“None of us had been polyamorous before, but we all just met and fell in love,” Taya explained to South West News Service. “Since we moved in together we all just co-parent all the children — we’re one big family unit.”

The couples met in person in June 2019 after having an instant spark and chatting online for several months