A mother asks Byron Katie about dealing with her son’s obsessive-compulsive disorder. "If my son is obsessive-compulsive, and he takes showers again and again," Katie says, "I might say, 'Honey, notice how hard you are on yourself. I understand that, because in my own way I judge myself too, and I’m working on it. But tell me, did you enjoy the shower?'" The best way to love your children is to understand your own mind. copyright2015 Byron Katie International, Inc. All rights reserved. For more information, visit thework.com.