Are you having an emotional affair?

You have no intention of going over THAT line, but the fact is, you’re having an emotional affair.  This relationship isn’t as well-defined as physical infidelity, but it’s an intense and special bond.  Here’s how you tell you’re having an emotional affair.  You’re more excited to see them than your partner.  You’re an expert on their lives.  You go out of your way to do things for them.  You talk about them constantly and have fantasies of a future with them.  You’re defensive when someone points out how close you are.  In your relationship with your partner, you’re detached and have a negative attitude.  You complain about them.  The romance has dropped off.  You argue with them more.  You’re hiding your relationship by changing your tech habits.  You’re feeling like a third wheel in your own relationship.  Don’t confuse your kids.  If your marriage is over, face it and take action.