The Parenting Out Loud

Parenting: There is no excuse for hitting a child ever


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I saw a thread post today.

A parent said he couldn’t control himself, so he hit his child and “it worked.” 😢 Hundreds of people agreed and they shared how they hit their kids too.


It breaks my heart 💔


Hitting a child is not discipline.

It’s VIOLENCE. It's ABUSE.


If that’s what we’re teaching… what are we really raising?

👉🏻It's okay to hurt someone when you’re upset.

👉🏻Love comes with pain.

👉🏻Grown-ups can break boundaries just because they’re bigger.


Please 🙏🏻 if you ever feel like hitting your child, pause.

Walk away. Take a breath.


And if you really need to hit something, hit a pillow, hit the wall. Hit yourself.


But don’t hit your child.


Durrant, J., & Ensom, R. (2012). Physical punishment of children: lessons from 20 years of research. CMAJ : Canadian Medical Association journal = journal de l'Association medicale canadienne, 184(12), 1373–1377. https://doi.org/10.1503/cmaj.101314

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The Parenting Out LoudBy Becca