Parents: Ever wonder why your teen pushes back on "the rules?" Shifting from rules to values can transform everything! And shifting from "parenting" to "coaching" changes your relationship with your teen! In this episode, Nate and Steve explore the importance of establishing rules that are rooted in values, how these rules can create a sense of freedom for teens (and parental units!!), and practical steps for teens and parents to identify their values. The commuter-friendly conversation also highlights two of Nate and Steve's personal rules and the values that underpin them, providing and example and insight for parents of teen athletes and performers.

Helpful Timestamps!

00:00 Why "stop parenting & start coaching" Your Teens?

02:39 The Importance of Rules and Values

03:06 Understanding Boundaries and Freedom

05:47 The Chicken and Egg of Values and Rules

06:54 Practical Steps for Creating Rules by Identifying Your Values

10:25 Nate & Steve share 2 Personal Rules & their Underlying Values

The Gold Nuggets

-Transitioning from parenting to coaching can enhance relationships.

-Understanding the interconnection between rules and values is crucial.

-Rules should be tied to values that matter to the family.

-Establishing boundaries provides freedom for teens.

-Clarity about values is essential for effective coaching of your teens.

-Personal rules reflect deeper values and commitments.

-Engaging in discussions about values can strengthen family bonds.

-Rules without values can feel hollow and restrictive.

-Practical steps can help families identify their values.

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