Conflict in marriage isn’t optional. The damage is.

In this episode, we share the ground rules that transformed how we handle disagreements after 26 years together. From giving your spouse the benefit of the doubt to keeping conflict respectful, avoiding “you always” language, and focusing on resolution instead of winning .

Because when your goal is to win the fight, you’re rooting for the person you love most to lose.

Healthy marriages aren’t conflict-free. They’re built on grace, clarity, compromise, and knowing how to fight fair.