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If you’ve ever thought, “We talk all the time… so why does it still feel like we’re missing each other?”—this episode is for you.

In Part Two of The Power Couple Paradox, Katie breaks down exactly why communication keeps unraveling in high-achieving relationships—and more importantly, how to fix it without adding more pressure, more emotional labor, or another thing to do at the end of an already exhausting day.

This isn’t about perfect communication. It’s about feeling like you’re on the same team again.

In this episode, you’ll learn why most couples don’t need to talk more—they need better containers for conversations. Katie introduces a powerful (and surprisingly relieving) reframe: separating love conversations from logistics conversations. When everything gets mixed together—feelings, resentment, schedules, mental load—communication quickly turns into shutdowns, snapping, or avoidance.

You’ll be guided through two simple weekly meetings that change everything:

• A Relationship Check-In focused on connection, appreciation, and emotional safety
• A Chief Household Officer (CHO) Meeting focused on planning, roles, and systems

Katie also explains how performance mode impacts tone, why intent and impact matter more than being “right,” and how one simple question—“Is this love or logistics?”—can instantly de-escalate conflict.

Your takeaway? You’re not failing. You’re overloaded. And with a little structure, communication can feel lighter, safer, and more connected again.

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