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In the final chapter of our mock custody trial series, Julie steps fully into the role of judge and walks listeners through how custody decisions are actually made. Drawing from real-world family law practice, this episode breaks down the factors judges are required to consider, what “equal” really means in custody cases, and why outcomes often feel emotionally devastating even when they’re legally balanced.

The conversation also zooms out to explore a bigger truth about family court: what the court can fix, what it can’t, and why chasing courtroom “wins” can sometimes do more harm than good. It’s a candid, behind-the-scenes look at judicial reasoning, expectations vs. reality, and the often-overlooked work that happens outside the courtroom.

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This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.