Alright, you internet cyborgs, did you know that how you laugh can literally make or break a high-stakes job interview with an executive? And making friends at work? It’s no different than those late-night pow-wows freshman year when you stayed up until 5 AM bonding over questionable life choices.

Honestly, I debated posting this because, as a naturally-born Supercommunicator, explaining this stuff is like teaching someone how to walk or pop up on a surfboard. I barely think about it—it just happens, like some spontaneous magic trick. But, for those of you who aren’t telepathically blessed with instant social skills, here’s the breakdown: How to Make Friends—according to the Supercommunicators Book Club. #emotionalintelligence