The Christian Dating Coach - Kingdom Matching by helping others be Marriage-Minded, Christ-Centered

(Part 3/5) 5 Questions Every Christian Must Ask Before Pursuing Marriage - Do I Know My Worth as God’s Precious Treasure?


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"Do I Know My Worth as God’s Precious Treasure?"

In this powerful episode, we dive into the biblical truth about worth, identity, and intentionality in the Christian journey toward marriage.

Drawing from Proverbs 18:22 and Proverbs 31:10, we challenge Christian singles—especially those navigating dating and relationships—to reflect deeply on how they see themselves and how they’re being seen.


💎 Ladies—you are not a free trial. You're a rare treasure, far above rubies. If God says your worth is high, then don’t lower it for attention, temporary affection, or someone who hasn’t made a covenant commitment.

🛠 Gentlemen—marriage isn’t a reward for charm; it's the fruit of diligence and godly pursuit. You’re called to protect, pursue, and lead—not to consume or casually “sample.”


We also ask the tough questions:

  • Am I treating my body and time as sacred?
  • Am I attracting covenant-minded people or casual connections?
  • Am I truly preparing to be a godly husband or wife—or just hoping someone finds me?


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Podcast by Pastor J the founder of One Cross Yoke (OCY), married to his wife of 13 years and father to two young boys.

OCY was founded because of a passionate call regarding preparing future marriages - we have helped many at the difficult seasons and realised we can help so many more based on what we learnt in stages of helping others who were in marital crises.

Christian marriages are at an alarming rate of divorce and the severity of choosing a godly spouse can be underplayed in the church. That is where we come in and with 13 years of marital experience - we understand the complex nature of finding a godly spouse.

We have set up OCY to help others get married and live 'happily ' married. We are in it for the business of planting OAK trees that can stand the test of time and create shelter for your future family to grow. 

Whether you're a Christian single, or you care about someone who is, this episode offers a bold, Scripture-rich reminder that your worth isn't defined by culture—it’s defined by Christ.

Share this with someone who needs to hear it. It might just change how they prepare for marriage forever.

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