this is episode 1 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about gaining confidence to start dating, enjoy romance and staying away from problematic white boys :)TW: Sexual AssaultSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Part 1: Dating for Dummies

It's your two faves bringing you the world's first cross-continental podcast.Bobo and Flex are on a quest to decolonize our minds, intersect our feminism, but most importantly, give us all the tools necessary to stay away problematic boys!Interested in advertising with the Bobo & Flex Show? Hit us up at boboandflex@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Comedy

in this week's episode, we dissect a fascinating dilemma that unpacks the bounds of interdimensional cheating! we discuss: what is it exactly that constitutes as cheating? how does monogamy culture affect this? and so much more!
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what is cheating?

in this very spirally episode, we talk about near-death experiences! we recount the experiences of 2 people who claimed to die and come back to life, and we dissect the extent to which those accounts are fictional constructs or accurate depictions of the path into the afterlife. We also discuss the role of aliens in our cosmos, and the Garbovoi healing numbers ... and their effect on humanity. enjoy!!
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what happens when we die?

Yaay new episode! This week's episode is very chit-chatty and all over the place. We talk briefly about meditation and the ways in which trauma lives in the body. And then we discuss all the various ways that we tend to live in bad faith and differentiate between actively living vs passively settling into life's circumstances. And, so much more!!
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meditation, trauma in the body & living in bad faith

Let's talk about mental health!! In this episode, we unpack the realities of being neurodivergent and learning to live in a society that is inherently ableist. We talk about some of the ways that society is disabling and how that lives alongside the online trends of depression/anxiety. We also talk about the controversy of self-diagnosis and how culture, class, gender and race complicate the issue. So much to unpack!! enjoy!!
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ADHD, autism, mental health trends & the controversy of self-diagnosis

This week we’re discussing the ethics of lying to kids. When, if ever, is it ethical to lie to your kids? How do we protect children's innocence and nurture their imagination and sense of fantasy without shielding them from reality? We discuss the context and cultural nuances that come with truth vs lies. We dissect the consequences of growing up under illusions. AND; we get into the growing trend of millennials hating kids. enjoy!
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Part 1: Dating for Dummies

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