In this heartfelt and insightful episode of The SPORTi Podcast hosts Laura and Pam sit down with Asia Mape, founder of @theilovetowatchyouplay and a veteran sports journalist turned youth sports advocate. Asia shares her personal journey into sports parenting, reflecting on how her experiences with her three daughters transformed her approach to youth athletics. She candidly discusses the emotional rollercoaster of being a sports parent—from burnout and pressure to identity and passion—and emphasizes the importance of truly listening to children, even when their path veers away from competitive sport. Her eldest daughter’s decision to quit water polo became a catalyst for Asia’s advocacy, highlighting how easily well-meaning parents can unintentionally apply pressure.

The conversation explores key themes in girls' sports, including the impact of coaching, the value of friendships in team settings, and the nuances of gender differences in motivation and development. Asia, Pam, and Laura also touch on systemic issues like early specialization, the evolving landscape of scholarships and NIL in college sports, and the critical need for communication between coaches, parents, and players. Through laughter and vulnerability, this episode delivers a powerful reminder: supporting young athletes starts with empathy, perspective, and a willingness to let them lead their own journey.

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