Becoming Me with Alana Wilson

Paternal Abandonment, Generational Patterns, and Breaking the Cycle


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In this powerful and honest episode, Mandy opens up about growing up with an alcoholic father who cheated on and abused her mother before ultimately disappearing from her life altogether. His absence left Mandy’s mother to raise her alone as a single parent, and Mandy reflects on the deep resentment, grief, and unanswered questions that followed her into adulthood.

As the conversation unfolds, Mandy confronts the painful reality of generational patterns—particularly the heartbreak of watching her own child experience abandonment by their father, mirroring her own childhood wounds. She shares how never witnessing healthy, stable love shaped her understanding of relationships and led her into toxic and, at times, physically abusive partnerships.

Together, we explore how unhealed trauma repeats itself, how abandonment shows up in parenting and intimacy, and the difficult work of breaking cycles that were never consciously chosen. Throughout the episode, I offer guidance, reflections, and practical advice on healing—on learning what healthy love looks like, reclaiming self-worth, and creating a different future for both herself and her child.

This episode is a raw exploration of generational trauma, resilience, and the courage it takes to stop the cycle and choose healing, even when it feels overwhelming.

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Becoming Me with Alana WilsonBy Alana Wilson