Talking about second marriages, Patricia Bubash talks about whether the energy put into being regretful has any purpose. Her divorce gave her a lot of information about second marriages which is why she wrote the book. She discusses whether or not people let regrets define them. As a licensed Professional Counselor and a Stephens Minister, this topic came out of many parents who entered her office needing an ear or shoulder. She answers the question about regretting previous decisions and how to deal with that.