This chapter reveals the truth behind the first meeting, romance, and marriage of Jerry Lewis and Patti Palmer. In 1944, young Jerry Lewis was a struggling record mime act, performing at Detroit’s Downtown Theatre, where he first saw singer Patti Palmer with the Ted Fio Rito Orchestra. Despite their contrasting career statuses and backgrounds, Jerry’s determination and charm sparked a relationship with the successful, older Patti.

Complications arose from harsh social, religious, and media pressures. Gossip columns falsely reported their marriage to protect Patti from stigma after she became pregnant, while both families objected due to religious differences. The popular myth that Jerry and Patti eloped in Connecticut is debunked, with legal documentation showing their actual wedding took place in New York City on April 30, 1945, with Jerry’s parents’ consent. Administrative errors and intentional obfuscations further clouded the public record. Their son was born a few months later, and the couple would celebrate a fictitious anniversary to align with the legend they created.

Ultimately, the chapter illustrates how love, ambition, misinformation, and social conventions intertwined in the early lives of Jerry Lewis and Patti Palmer, revealing the real story behind their union amidst the manufactured myths of show business.