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Sometimes the life-changing door is not locked. We just never ask to open it.
Signature Quote
"What if I believe this, instead of that, what might be possible?"
Why This Quote Matters
That one question captures the heart of this conversation: bold asking is not just about getting a yes. It is about challenging the quiet rules, fears, and assumptions that keep us playing small.
Episode Description
In this episode of The Audacious Living Podcast, Audley sits down with Paul Quinn, author of The Big Ask, for a conversation about courage, rejection, worthiness, and the surprising power of simply asking.
Paul shares why so many people talk themselves out of opportunities before anyone else gets the chance to say no. And let’s be honest, most of us have held a whole committee meeting in our heads, rejected ourselves, adjourned the meeting, and never said a word.
This conversation is a reminder that asking is not weakness. It is self-respect in motion. Whether it is asking for feedback, support, truth, forgiveness, opportunity, or one more chance, the ask can change the outcome — and sometimes, it changes you first.
In This Episode You'll Hear About
Why not asking can quietly cheat us out of possibility
How rejection and regret shape the choices we make
The difference between a desperate ask and a confident ask
Why vulnerability is part of every meaningful request
How asking for feedback can accelerate personal and professional growth
Why “no” does not always mean never
Guest Bio
Paul Quinn is the author of The Big Ask: Unlock the Possibilities in Your Work, Life and Dreams with Courageous Requests. His work explores the courage, vulnerability, and transformation that happen when people stop assuming the answer and start asking the question.
Through stories from more than 80 people, Paul helps readers and listeners rethink what is possible when they are willing to ask boldly.
Guest Links
Website / Book: https://bigaskbook.com
Social Media: Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn
Platform Links
Listen on Major Platforms
🎧 Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/2jVR6V7X2kRiCCDXE0FTyl?si=IR3TsfEWR3WA6BzfBRnVXQ
🍎 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-audacious-living-podcast/id1547447345
📦 Amazon Music → https://music.amazon.ca/podcasts/9f7902bb-dec8-4bd9-918d-d1fef21b7c67/the-audacious-living-podcast?ref=dm_sh_pGv57yQvAmAQVp2IIaXoDwtFt
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By Audley Stephenson5
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Sometimes the life-changing door is not locked. We just never ask to open it.
Signature Quote
"What if I believe this, instead of that, what might be possible?"
Why This Quote Matters
That one question captures the heart of this conversation: bold asking is not just about getting a yes. It is about challenging the quiet rules, fears, and assumptions that keep us playing small.
Episode Description
In this episode of The Audacious Living Podcast, Audley sits down with Paul Quinn, author of The Big Ask, for a conversation about courage, rejection, worthiness, and the surprising power of simply asking.
Paul shares why so many people talk themselves out of opportunities before anyone else gets the chance to say no. And let’s be honest, most of us have held a whole committee meeting in our heads, rejected ourselves, adjourned the meeting, and never said a word.
This conversation is a reminder that asking is not weakness. It is self-respect in motion. Whether it is asking for feedback, support, truth, forgiveness, opportunity, or one more chance, the ask can change the outcome — and sometimes, it changes you first.
In This Episode You'll Hear About
Why not asking can quietly cheat us out of possibility
How rejection and regret shape the choices we make
The difference between a desperate ask and a confident ask
Why vulnerability is part of every meaningful request
How asking for feedback can accelerate personal and professional growth
Why “no” does not always mean never
Guest Bio
Paul Quinn is the author of The Big Ask: Unlock the Possibilities in Your Work, Life and Dreams with Courageous Requests. His work explores the courage, vulnerability, and transformation that happen when people stop assuming the answer and start asking the question.
Through stories from more than 80 people, Paul helps readers and listeners rethink what is possible when they are willing to ask boldly.
Guest Links
Website / Book: https://bigaskbook.com
Social Media: Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn
Platform Links
Listen on Major Platforms
🎧 Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/2jVR6V7X2kRiCCDXE0FTyl?si=IR3TsfEWR3WA6BzfBRnVXQ
🍎 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-audacious-living-podcast/id1547447345
📦 Amazon Music → https://music.amazon.ca/podcasts/9f7902bb-dec8-4bd9-918d-d1fef21b7c67/the-audacious-living-podcast?ref=dm_sh_pGv57yQvAmAQVp2IIaXoDwtFt
Call To Action
Enjoying the show? Share this episode with someone who needs to hear this.
⭐ Leave a review:
👉 https://ratethispodcast.com/audacious