Limmud Seattle 2019 presenter Paula Rose urges us to think about what we want the guests at our Seder, and specifically the children, to come away with. She suggests adding points of surprise, curiosity, and engagement. Examples include adding a new tradition, a change in location, or saying “Ma Nishtana” in a new language. To illustrate this concept she discusses two Talmudic passages where the rabbis give tips on how to get the children to ask questions and stay awake. Interview by Tamar Libicki.