Pastor Pauline Mwarabu, 41 and a co-pastor at JCC Ongata Rongai, is no stranger to failure. She first experienced it when she failed her KCSE exams - but because she was determined to go to university, she took it upon herself to find some money to take herself back to school to repeat the exam.

She passed with flying colours and made it to university, but her life then took a series of twists and turns that took her from being happily married, to not-so-happily married; from well-off to very poor... and finally, the most tumultuous journey, which was from regular church-going Christian to struggling to become a pastor's wife, with all the responsibilities it brings.

She's here to tell us how she finally found her happy.