welcome back to pause and sip! season 2 starts here, and everything's different now. married, moved, relaunched the business, and lost some friendships along the way — all at once, not one at a time.

this episode is the honest, no-highlight-reel version of that season. tell me what you want to hear this year. comment, dm, or email me. <3

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today's episode is a little different — i'm taking you through what i learned reading the Old Testament from Genesis all the way through Joshua. my goal this year has been to read it thoroughly, not just check a box, and let me tell you... it's been a journey.

i'm sharing what genuinely surprised me (hello, Joshua and his men defeating 31 kings), the moment in Joshua 21 that gave me chills watching God's promise to Abraham actually come full circle, and i'm being honest about the parts that were HARD — looking at you, Leviticus and Deuteronomy. i also get real about what convicted me watching the Israelites turn away from God again and again after everything He did for them... because if i'm honest, i do the same thing more than i'd like to admit.

if you've ever wanted to read the Bible cover to cover but didn't know where to start or got stuck somewhere in the middle, this one's for you.

come find me on tiktok @aly.titus and tell me what book you're in right now — i'd love to know. 📖

if you've been around here for a while, you know i'm all about keeping it real — and today's episode is exactly that. i'm walking you through my current daily habits that are actually working for me right now. we're talking morning routines, skincare, movement, food, faith, and even a little bit of what i've been doing just for fun. this season of life has been a big one, and these are the little things keeping me grounded and feeling like myself.

no fluff, no perfection — just an honest peek into what my everyday actually looks like right now. i think you're going to find something in here that resonates with you.

come hang out with me over on tiktok at @aly.titus and let me know your current favorite habit — i genuinely want to know. now let's get into it. ☕

NF's music has never let me pretend — and sometimes that's exactly what your faith walk needs. In this episode of Pause and Sip, we're breaking down how NF's most raw and honest songs connect to scripture, healing, and what it really means to keep showing up for God even in the messy middle.

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Are you waiting to feel ready before you take that next step? In this episode of Pause and Sip, we're talking about why "feeling ready" is a myth, what's really keeping you stuck, and how to take that first step even when you're scared. Because the version of you that starts imperfectly is still so much further ahead than the version of you that never starts at all.

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Life has been full lately — wedding planning, moving, leaving my job, and a whole lot of change happening all at once. And somewhere in the middle of it all, I started thinking about who I actually want to become through it.

In this episode I'm talking about what it looks like to stop just getting through life and start being intentional about who you're becoming — especially in the seasons where everything is shifting all at once. I'm sharing the four pillars I keep coming back to as I step into this new chapter: my faith, becoming a peaceful wife, taking care of my body and mind, and building something purposeful with my platform.

This one is for anyone who's in an in-between season right now — where a lot is about to change and you want to be intentional about who you become through it, instead of just letting it happen to you.

✨ Tune in, grab something to sip, and let's talk about it.

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In this episode of Pause and Sip, I talk about the exhaustion that comes from carrying too much on your own for too long. From wedding planning and moving to emotional overwhelm and mental spiraling, this episode is an honest conversation about independence, burnout, and realizing that just because you can handle everything alone doesn’t mean you should have to. We talk about the invisible mental load, learning to recognize overwhelm earlier, and why rest and asking for help are things I’m actively learning in this season of life.

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Consistency doesn’t have to mean doing everything perfectly — and it definitely shouldn’t leave you feeling drained. In this episode of Pause & Sip, we’re talking about what it really looks like to build habits that last without burning yourself out in the process. From letting go of all-or-nothing thinking to focusing on small, steady steps, this conversation is a reminder that slow progress is still progress. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed trying to “get your life together,” this episode is for you.

Grab your favorite drink, get cozy, and join me for a conversation about creating a life that feels balanced, intentional, and sustainable.

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In this episode of Pause & Sip, we’re talking about evening habits for rest and reflection—and why your nights might not be a discipline problem, but a boundary problem. I share how I shifted from chaotic, overstimulating evenings to creating a routine that actually helps me unwind, reset, and feel more grounded.

We get into realistic ways to slow down at the end of the day, reflect without overthinking, and build habits that support better sleep and a calmer mind—without trying to be perfect about it. If your nights feel scattered or draining, this episode will help you create a more peaceful, intentional close to your day.

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In this episode, we're talking about the importance of a digital detox and how stepping away from constant scrolling can bring more peace, clarity, and intention into your life. I share practical ways to unplug, reconnect with yourself, and refocus on what truly matters - mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.

Let's slow down together.

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