Adulting and marriage leads to household bills. Who's gonna make sure they get paid is anybodies guess. It's not that hard when you have a joint account.

Everybody knows finances are a hot button subject in any relationship. You need a whole lotta trust when it comes to keeping the lights on and the water running. Folks will trust you with their life before they trust you with there money.

And if you think money and marriage don't mix then move on.