The Teen Years Toolkit For Moms: Parenting Communication Skills to Calm the Chaos

P.E.A.C.E. Mini-Series Day 2: E Is for Expect — Finding Calm by Expecting What’s Real, Not Ideal: (Moms, Teens Communication))


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Do you ever find yourself hoping your teen will act differently “just because it’s a holiday”… only to feel disappointed or hurt when they show up exactly the way they always do?

In today's tiny but powerful episode, we soften the expectations that quietly create so much stress for moms during the holidays. Instead of wishing for the picture-perfect, Hallmark-version of your teen or other family members, Day 2 invites you to expect the real people in your life—their moods, their quirks, their tiredness, their need for space, and yes… sometimes their attitude.

When you expect what’s real instead of what’s ideal, you protect your peace from the sting of disappointment and the spiral of taking everything personally.

In this calming episode, you’ll learn:

• Why expecting your teen to be “different” on a holiday almost always leads to stress

• How lowering expectations isn’t giving up—it’s choosing compassion and reality

• How expecting mood swings, plan changes, or distance helps you stay grounded and present

• Why honest expectations create more peace for you and your teen

This gentle shift can prevent resentment, protect your heart, and help you actually enjoy the people you love.

Press play to give yourself a breath of clarity today—and walk into your next holiday moment prepared for reality, not perfection.

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The Teen Years Toolkit For Moms: Parenting Communication Skills to Calm the ChaosBy Jessica Stewart