Jesus calls us to deny ourselves. To give ourselves up, that we may follow Jesus and bear our cross. Just like Jesus' cross was unpleasant, so are our crosses that we must bear. We don't want to have to go through suffering, to deal with issues, problems, and other pains in life. We'd rather avoid suffering, pain, and difficulty altogether. Yet Jesus calls us to follow him, picking up the crosses we all must bear and thorns in our sides. Yet, how can we do this? Jesus gives us the strength, example, and the glory of his cross that he bore. By following Jesus, we don't just do hard things and bear difficulty that is unique to us all. We embark on the journey Jesus has laid out for us, not looking to the things of man, but by bearing all things by the strength of Christ in us, following his example, and looking to him for the glory that is to come. We bear our crosses when we find strength in Jesus, look to his example for us to follow, and keep our eyes focused on his promises of everlasting life.